![]() ![]() Even a number of polls have been conducted to determine which candidate is most popular. To determine the ideal method for selecting a spouse, there is an ongoing discussion over love marriage Vs arranged marriage. Marriage is not a child’s game it comes with a lot of responsibilities. The main objective is to marry, whether it’s to the spouse of your choosing or to your parents. Unlike planned weddings, when partners are chosen by the couple’s family, parents, or other relatives, love marriages allow girls and boys to pick their spouses on their own. On the other side, some people support arranged marriages. Some individuals support love weddings since both couples are already acquainted. ![]() Both couples must dedicate their entire lives to their marriage and to one another.Įveryone wants to know which of the two possibilities is superior and more successful. Marriage is a bond between two families and two people of opposing couplings. Else I will remain single all my life!” (Angry)įinally one side relents, and irrespective of whether Ashwathi converts to Aysha or not, let us wish the bride and groom and their families luck, love and happiness, the only ingredients I think make a successful marriage.A wonderful marriage is not the result of the first love you had, but rather of how effectively you maintained that love throughout the marriage. “I don’t want the money, I just want your blessings and to be with him/her. Threats: “I will cut you out of my will.”(The tears have dried up now) Do you want me to sacrifice my dreams and wishes and be unahppy all my life?” (Tears again) I love you but I cannot forget him/her either. You want to rubbish my dreams and get married in a church, wearing a WHITE gown? (Tears) Don’t you have any love for your mother and father?” (More tears). Emotional Blackmail: “I had a vision of you in a red madisar marrying a man I chose for you. And how can you be sure that the person of your choice is an innocent little lamb?” (Real life examples again) “I have known him/her for a long time now, and he/she will never hurt me in any way. “People in love are usually miniature satans who show their true colours only after marriage.” (This arguement is usually supported by a few real life examples). “Adjustments have to be made in any case, whether I marry him/her or a person of your choice.” This will ultimately result in bitterness.” “The people involved will have to make a lot of adjustments and sacrifices. They were not happy about it initially, but they have agreed for the sake of their son’s/daughter’s happiness.” So the families must have similar socio economic, cultural and religious backgrounds.” “Marriage is a union of two families, and not just two people. At precisely this point, the children inform them in a small voice that the person they intend to spend the rest of their lives with speaks a different language, supports Bengal Tigers and not Kochi Tuskers, thinks Chiranjeevi is a better actor than Mohanlal (/Mamootty), does not have much of a bank balance, nor degrees adorning his sitting room walls, and worships Allah, not Krishna!!! Jesus Christ! “Maybe, we can pass it off as an arranged marriage”, muse the parents. Talk “love” to elders, and it causes them shock, shame, concern and high BP shock because the son/daughter who was taught cultural and moral values right from birth dared to choose his/her own life partner shame because friends and relatives whose children didn’t do the same will look down upon them (the parents) and talk behind their backs and sometimes to their faces about their shoddy parenting skills (why else would the children have gone astray?) worry because kids will always be kids and they might have chosen wrong, an unworthy match and high BP, well, I think all this will definitely cause some credible blood pressure fluctuations. In India, a love marriage causes a huge scandal in the family, the proportions of which are unmatched by any other kind of scandal. ![]()
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